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Claire was an amazing light that shone amidst us, this will be our way of maintaining that light shining. We want this to be a colaborative effort to this end we ask you to send us any info, photos, stories, that you would not mind sharing about Claire and her oddissey on earth, her illness, and how she left us. WE will also maintain the forum so that we can continue to stay in touch with each other and so that people can also share their current thoughts.
Thanks to all,
Cristina and Bryan
UpdateClaire passed away at 1:10 AM on Friday, August 13, 2004. She is now at peace, as only those who are left behind are fated otherwise. I'm sure that she will be lending her strength to all of us in the days to come. Until the last, she wanted all of you to know how much she loved you, and appreciated your support when she needed it most. She will need to help us now I think.
Claire's Forum meant a lot to her, and often lifted her spirits... Thank you to all those who contributed to this. I'd like to leave it as a memorial to Claire for as long as the family desires. A second forum (titled Friends of Claire) has been set up for all those who would like to remain in contact. I hope so, since this experience has brought many people together on her behalf, and hopefully such ties will be strengthened as time passes.
Thank you again for your continued support.
Sincerely, Bryan and Cristina
August 10th, 04
I briefly spoke with Matt, Claire's brother. Claire is sleeping most of the time and is very tired, at times she has difficulty breathing. Matt and Mirium are caring for her with the help of some other family members, and close friends. According to Matt, Claire has expressed imense joy in knowing that so many people have come together to help her. Matt said that if anything can be learned from this difficult situation, is the true value of friendship and the strenght of the bonds that hold friends together.
Claire's time with us is very limited. Matt says the love and friendship extended to Claire and the whole family has made the situation easier to tolerate. Please post a message to the forum if you would like to send any wishes to Claire.
Please keep Claire and her family in your thoughts and prayers.
Cristina
August 9th, 2004
We received a phone call this evening with a message from Claire.
Claire continues to fight however this battle, and the medication has left her very tired.
At this time Claire thanks all who have helped during this journey. No gesture was ever too small, nor was a single smile left unnoticed. Currently Claire is spending her time surrounded by her family enjoying their company. It is difficult for her to return phone calls and to answer the phone. Through this website Claire thanks everyone for the good wishes, positive energy, hospital visits, encouraging phone calls, and all of your prayers. Claire also is thankful for all those who registered with the National Bone Marrow Registry.
In these next few days as Claire enjoys the warmth of her family, please continue to send healing thoughts, positive energy and prayers. And always know she gives her love to all of you.
Please continue to post your messages onClaire's Forum , you can e-mail us here. We will update this website as soon as new information becomes available.
This is not a hoax or a plea for sympathy this is very real.
Claire Dick Hulsey, a friend from my camp days, whom I've known since 1988, needs a stem-cell donor, NOW.
Taken July, 1991 during a break from camp, from the left Me (cristina to some Small Fry to most), with Cory (on my back), Matt (red shorts only visible), Keri (green and blue stripes), Michael (light blue shirt and white shorts), Matt (Claire's brother grey shirt), John (striped shirt), Gretchen(black shirt), Claire (white shirt and a great smile). If you're featured in this photo and want to be removed write me a note and I'll remove your face and name.
The article below from the Fresno Bee published, July 3, 2004, explains in detail the current, and urgent situation.
One thing that always stands out about Claire is the love that radiates from her. She's fun and has a wickedly great sense of humour. These last few days I've spoken with several of our old friends from YMCA Camp Tulequoia about Claire's situation, everyone has a little story to tell about Claire but what stands out the most is how she brightens the lives that she touches.
It is now our turn to brighten Claire's life. A MATCH MUST BE FOUND. This is what you can do
STEP 1 Go to the following link http://www.marrow.org/ familiarize yourself with the site.
STEP 2 Following this link
http://www.marrow.org/cgi-bin/NETWORK/map.pl?ctr_typ=DC click on the state where you live, you then will see a list of available centers.
STEP 3 Call the center make the appointment to register. In many centers the fee will be waived if you donate a pint of blood.
STEP 4 If the fee will not be waived, and you can not pay, beg, whine, cry, print this page and show it to them. Please remember, that even if you are not a match for Claire, you may be able to help someone else.
Dearest friends:
Please, I try not to be a pest, but this is a serious matter if you can, get tested. This is so important. I've met Claire when she was a teenager, she has grown into a beautiful loving woman and mother to seven year old Michael. In advance I thank you as does Claire and her family.
You may be someone's miracle.
Ana Cristina Mendonsa-Garaventa
This is a forum where you can leave messages for each other and Claire.
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Article from the
Visalia Times Delta
published on July 30th 2004
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