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In Memory of Claire

Claire was an amazing light that shone amidst us, this will be our way of maintaining that light shining.  We want this to be a colaborative effort to this end we ask you to send us any info, photos, stories, that you would not mind sharing about Claire and her oddissey on earth, her illness, and how she left us.  WE will also maintain the forum so that we can continue to stay in touch with each other and so that people can also share their current thoughts.
Thanks  to all,
Cristina and Bryan

Update


Claire passed away at 1:10 AM on Friday, August 13, 2004. She is now at peace, as only those who are left behind are fated otherwise. I'm sure that she will be lending her strength to all of us in the days to come. Until the last, she wanted all of you to know how much she loved you, and appreciated your support when she needed it most. She will need to help us now I think.

Claire's Forum meant a lot to her, and often lifted her spirits... Thank you to all those who contributed to this. I'd like to leave it as a memorial to Claire for as long as the family desires. A second forum (titled Friends of Claire) has been set up for all those who would like to remain in contact. I hope so, since this experience has brought many people together on her behalf, and hopefully such ties will be strengthened as time passes.

Thank you again for your continued support.

Sincerely, Bryan and Cristina


August 10th, 04
I briefly spoke with Matt, Claire's brother.  Claire is sleeping most of the time and is very tired, at times she has difficulty breathing.  Matt and Mirium are caring for her with the help of some other family members, and close friends.  According to Matt, Claire has expressed imense joy in knowing that so many people have come together to help her.  Matt said that if anything can be learned from this difficult situation, is the true value of friendship and the strenght of the bonds that hold friends together.  
Claire's time with us is very limited. Matt says the love and friendship extended to Claire and the whole family has made the situation easier to tolerate.  Please post a message to the forum if you would like to send any wishes to Claire.
Please keep Claire and her family in your thoughts and prayers.
Cristina

August 9th, 2004
We received a phone call this evening with a message from Claire.
Claire continues to fight however this battle, and the medication has left her very tired.
At this time Claire thanks all who have helped during this journey.  No gesture was ever too small, nor was a single smile left unnoticed.  Currently Claire is spending her time surrounded by her family enjoying their company.  It is difficult for her to return phone calls and to answer the phone.  Through this website Claire thanks everyone for the good wishes, positive energy, hospital visits, encouraging phone calls, and all of your prayers.  Claire also is thankful for all those who registered with the National Bone Marrow Registry.  
In these next few days as Claire enjoys the warmth of her family, please continue to send healing thoughts, positive energy and prayers.  And always know she gives her love to all of you.

Please continue to post your messages onClaire's Forum , you can e-mail us here. We will update this website as soon as new information becomes available.

This is not a hoax or a plea for sympathy this is very real.
Claire Dick Hulsey, a friend from my camp days, whom I've known since 1988, needs a stem-cell donor, NOW.  

Taken July, 1991 during a break from camp, from the left Me (cristina to some Small Fry to most), with Cory (on my back),  Matt (red shorts only visible), Keri (green and blue stripes),  Michael (light blue shirt and white shorts),  Matt (Claire's brother grey shirt), John (striped shirt), Gretchen(black shirt), Claire (white shirt and a great smile).  If you're featured in this photo and want to be removed write me a note and I'll remove your face and name.
The article below from the Fresno Bee published, July 3, 2004, explains in detail the current, and urgent situation.
One thing that always stands out about Claire is the love that radiates from her.  She's fun and has a wickedly great sense of humour.  These last few days I've spoken with several of our old friends from YMCA Camp Tulequoia about Claire's situation, everyone has a little story to tell about Claire but what stands out the most is how she brightens the lives that she touches.
It is now our turn to brighten Claire's life.  A MATCH MUST BE FOUND.  This is what you can do
STEP 1 Go to the following link http://www.marrow.org/ familiarize yourself with the site.
STEP 2 Following this link
http://www.marrow.org/cgi-bin/NETWORK/map.pl?ctr_typ=DC click on the state where you live, you then will see a list of available centers.
STEP 3 Call the center make the appointment to register.  In many centers the fee will be waived if you donate a pint of blood.  
STEP 4  If the fee will not be waived, and you can not pay, beg, whine, cry, print this page and show it to them.  Please remember, that even if you are not a match for Claire, you may be able to help someone else.

Dearest friends:
Please, I try not to be a pest, but this is a serious matter if you can, get tested.  This is so important.  I've met Claire when she was a teenager, she has grown into a beautiful loving woman and mother to seven year old Michael.  In advance I thank you as does Claire and her family.  

You may be someone's miracle.

Ana Cristina Mendonsa-Garaventa
(eMail)

This is a forum where you can leave messages for each other and Claire.

Claire's Forum

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Article from the
Visalia Times Delta
published on July 30th 2004
Woman inspires marrow donors
Hundreds have offered to help cancer patient
By Patricia Jiayi Ho, Staff writer


Claire Hulsey
Though Claire Hulsey, 32, has been confined to a hospital room for the past month, her story has in-spired many to take action.
Since being diagnosed with a rare form of cancer on April 1, Hulsey had been shuttling between her home in Visalia and the Stanford University Medical Center in Palo Alto for treatment. She is back home after the latest round of chemotherapy -- her sixth -- to recover and spend time with her 6-year-old son, Michael.
"It's been a huge eye-opener for me," said Hulsey, who worked as a respiratory therapist. "I was so surprised at how many people have done things for me. People I don't even know have organized blood drives. It's like a little tiny pillow landed on a lake and this huge wave has come out."
Hulsey has Burkitt's lymphoma, a disease that afflicts about 200 people in the United States each year, according to Mark Lee, an oncologist at Stanford. It occurs when certain white blood cells mutate and multiply out of control, crippling the immune system's ability to fight infection and disease.
"Burkitt's lymphoma is one of the fastest and most aggressive cancers, period," Lee said. "Patients can go from being well to extremely ill within weeks."
In Hulsey's case, she first discovered a lump in her neck that was growing quickly. Though it responded to chemo-therapy, the cancer soon came back in her abdomen.
Currently, Hulsey is in a wait-and-see period. If the latest round of chemotherapy is successful, she will need a matching bone-marrow donor for a bone-marrow transplant.
In the meantime, family, friends and total strangers have rallied around her.
Hulsey's friends, previous co-workers from Visalia YMCA and a few strangers organized blood drives.
"A woman had a blood drive at her work [in Fresno]," Hulsey said. "They didn't even know me. It's been crazy."
Since June 1 at the Central California Blood Centers alone, over 140 people have donated blood and almost 40 have signed up for the bone marrow registry in Hulsey's name.
"We have had hundreds and hundreds of calls wanting to donate because of her story," said Chris Sorensen, director of community relations and development.
A friend who worked with Hulsey in the early 1990s at a YMCA youth camp, Cristina Mendonsa-Garaventa, started a forum on her Web site for Hulsey.
"The goal was to get the word out, get people to register and to give people a venue to send well wishes to Claire," Mendonsa-Garaventa said.
Hulsey's brother, Matt Dick, said her wish is that, even if it doesn't work for her, people will register to donate marrow.
"It could do something for someone else," he said.
The forum also became a respite for Hulsey.
In a topic titled "Laughter Is The Best Medicine," members have posted their memories of the YMCA camps, which recount events such as yodeling parties and the Big Hair Night.
"I know this sounds weird because I have cancer, and I'm in the hospital, but it's been really fun," Hulsey said, adding that she enjoys reading the stories on her forum.
"My faith is restored in the community," she said.
Email this story
Originally published Friday, July 30, 2004Getting involved
Local donor centers:
i 1515 S. Mooney Blvd., Visalia, 625-3121
i 93 N. Main St., Suite D, Porterville, 781-5532
To give blood, donors must be at least 17 years old, weigh 110 pounds and be in general good health. There is no fee.
To be put on the blood marrow registry, donors must be between 18 and 60 years old and in general good health. The fee depends on funding available and can range from free to $65. This service is only available at the Visalia and Fresno offices.
Information
For more information, call the Central California Blood Center at 224-2900 or visit www.cencalblood.org.
For information on the national marrow donor pro- gram, visit www.marrow .org.